so not too long ago...

i wrote that Ass Hat and I may have found a way to make this crazy messed up friendship of ours work.  Literally, a few days later, we had a knock-down-drag-out fight that left me believing we would never speak to each other again.  Amazingly enough, he apologized, I apologized and we had a deeply honest heart-to-heart discussion that surprised me.  Then we had dinner together two nights later.

My birthday is this Friday and I told him that he's invited if he wants to come.  We have a ton of mutual friends, who will be at the party, and he's been there for me a lot recently.  Why wouldn't I invite him?  Right?  Because my friend acted like I was insane for even considering it.  Granted, she is allowed to hate him for the way he has treated me in the past.  And she is allowed to think it is better if I never speak to him again.  But she honestly thinks that he shouldn't be included.

Am I wrong for attempting to be a good friend and invite him?  Because I know that if the situation was reversed, I would be hurt if he didn't invite me, after we had both made an attempt at being friends and all of our mutual friends were coming.

All I really know is that I. Don't. Want. A. Drama. Filled. Birthday.